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Yesterday I had to pack up my partner Debbies clothes and personal items.

Up till yesterday I think I must have been in denial about her death and I know I have been trying to focus on anything but on how much I miss her and I have been doing a pretty good job in that respect.

By yesterday everything I touched reminded me she is gone, every piece of clothing had her smell on it, everything i put into a box brought back a memory.

Fuck... Debs is really gone... and I just want her back...

We w… Continue

Well I am back down in the Outer Banks... I have to back up Debbie's stuff... I left the girls with my dad in DC and it snowed there.

This would be the first time they have ever seen snow.

My Dad E-Mail me a picture... looks like they are pretty impressed...… Continue

Because it make it very hard to type if you do......

This is me .... at the Capitol on Inauguration Day... Outside the Rayburn House Office Building Press Screening Area ...

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This marks the first installment of a series of posts of a gay man (me) and the l… Continue